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Mar 30, 2023
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Men in Hollywood have long been protected from the consequences of their actions while women and girls both famous and otherwise must suffer them instead, in silence. Despite the #MeToo movement of the late 2010s, this pattern has continued while celebrities and comedians fear an imaginary boogie man in “cancel culture.”

Over the weekend, Jonathan Majors was arrested during a domestic disturbance that took place in New York, during which he allegedly was “striking [his girlfriend] about the face with an open hand, causing substantial pain and a laceration behind her ear.” Majors was the one to call the cops, reporting that the unnamed female was experiencing an emotional crisis. He was arrested and she was transported to a hospital to be treated for minor injuries.

After the news broke, Twitter exploded with polarizing takes. Many people jumped to Majors’ defense, citing that he was the one to phone the police and warning others not to fall for “rumors.” Others expressed a shocked disgust considering Majors’ public emphasis on soft masculinity, feeling duped and disturbed by his dual personality.

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Most notably, the film industry started to rumble, noting that there had been talk of his abusive behavior for years. Some users recalled a vague tweet from months back which referenced an unnamed actor who was experiencing a sudden rise to fame who didn’t deserve their accolades due to their nasty behavior behind closed doors. “I never would’ve guessed this was about Jonathan Majors,” wrote one Twitter user.

Majors, through his lawyer, has maintained his innocence, claiming he’s done “nothing wrong” and that the victim has “recanted.” However, on Monday, March 27, Majors was arraigned and indicted formally on multiple harassment and assault charges.

On Thursday, his lawyer released a series of text messages between the alleged victim and Majors in which the victim blames herself and apologizes, something that is not uncommon for victims of abuse. She also notes that she collapsed and fainted.

After the texts were released, Twitter once again erupted in a storm of opinionated tweets, but this time, most agreed that this did not paint Majors in the light his lawyer must have hoped. Instead, many women recognized the tactics he employed.

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not his peace, hispanic @bad_dominicana
so she admits he did cause injuries and we are to believe grabbing his phone merits him injuring her. she sound like shes victim blaming herself and yall think this proves anything other than he did it? bye https://t.co/J6YKfDtjiC
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philip lewis @Phil_Lewis_
Jonathan Majors’ lawyer shares with TMZ alleged texts sent to the actor from the woman https://t.co/bgu2USrrMJ https://t.co/48qVCDM8Wp
3:25 PM ∙ Mar 30, 2023
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Jasmine💋 @itsjasminetoyou
Him asking her about the keys and telling her goodbye is also manipulative. Not answering or talking about the assault. Leaving her mind to wander. It’s all on purpose. Abusers study out the same book.
3:46 PM ∙ Mar 30, 2023
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In addition to Jonathan Major’s arrest, just this week we’ve also learned of Sebastian Bear-McClard’s disturbing sexual misconduct allegations. Multiple women who were aged 17 and 18 at the time of the incidents have accused Emily Ratajkowski’s ex-husband and frequent collaborator of the Safdie brothers, Sebastian Bear McClard of egregious behavior ranging from verbal abuse to sexual assault.

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